I'm Late!

I know I haven’t made an update in nearly a month. I have been starting a new job, sorting out a holiday, working out how to pay for the holiday, switching internet providers, fixing my laptop, computer and PS3. all whilst trying to study and practice the Art of the Pick-up.

Now that the excuses are out of the way, I will make a detailed video tomorrow evening about all the goings on.

I have had a few Day 2’s (dates/Second meetings), 2 from online, 2 from the field and a few friends. (trying things to escape the friend-zone).

As you tell can probably tell I am trying everything, Real-life, online sarging and friend-zone reversal (is that a thing?). Practice makes perfect. And practicing with female friends really helps, not only boost confidence but helps to perfect routines. The 1st time I tried “The Cube” routine with a girl I was shitting it, but I managed to stay calm throughout the whole routine and had a major ego boost when I finished. The Cube is fantastic,

[here’s a link if you have no idea what I am talking about: http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/the-cube-vt1509.html ]

It can take anything from 10-20 minutes to do, depending on how in depth you want to go. And if you’re stuck on conversation afterwards you can teach her how to do it. I have done it about 6 or 7 times, and always had a good response I ask them how accurate it is and so far have always got an 8 or 9 out of 10. I do it with a cheat sheet, my excuse of pulling a piece of paper out of my jacket is, that “it has to be done in a certain order, so I made notes for myself”, which they accept and it’s the truth.

I have Full-Monty-ed once this month, which may not sound like a lot but trust me it’s a lot more sex than I normally have. I am learning and practicing a lot more kino, I have found initiating basic kino is quite easy, touch her arm or whatever. But I have also found ways to jump-start it if there are no excuses to touch her from that point on. A couple off the top of my head are:

High Five! (maybe if we agree on something)

Thumb War! (maybe if we disagree on something)

I can follow-up both of these by saying: “wait a sec, give me your hand, interesting” then push it away. And follow-up with “I’ve started reading a book on palm reading” her: “so what you’re going to tell my future” me: “maybe in a bit, if you’re lucky” and lead on to fluff talking, or maybe talk about palm reading and if she believes it.

Sometimes I think I can get away with using the trust test, instead of palm reading or straight after palm reading. [ http://www.theattractionforums.com/comfort/48023-mehow-trust-test.html ]

Palm Reading is absolute pure BS but Pick-up gold. When I’m doing it girls seem amazed I am predicting there future, (remember it’s predicting the future, not cold reading, although I do slip a little cold reading in) for example I might say “this is you’re life line, it’s looks like you’re going to live until you’re very old, you might turn out to be a moaning granny, but by the looks of it, you’ll be having zimmer-frame races, also it looks like you where a very, energetic, child.” Did I just look at her life line and predict her future? I might of done, but she thinks I did.

I still suck at opening, but after that point I am really starting to see myself improve. Opening is just a sticking point for me, which I will master, and as soon as I have, other things will be much easier. :)

Thanks for reading and following guys, I haven’t really done anything with twitter, might use it to tweet my approaches, we’ll see what happens. Video tomorrow, with a few details and field reports I’ve left out.

Just quickly before you go, I’d like to sign off with a line that I really don’t have the right frame to make work, but it would still be fun to try in field. I might do one in every post:

“I’m Buz, if you buy me a drink, I might keep talking to you”

Keep on Sarging :)

-Buz

Quick Update: Tonights Plans

Just a quick update.

This Half of the week has been quite fun, asking people for the time when I didn’t need to know was easy. I have only been asking attractive woman for the time and directions, and when they didn’t know it was fun to tease them a little about them not knowing where they are. I haven’t used any direct lines yet but I’m sure I will by Tuesday, they will probably be warm approaches. I find day game difficult which is why I’m taking day game slowly.

Going to a bar tonight, which means, time to sarge. I am not as nervous as before and I think that’s because I have accepted failure as part of learning. Tonight I am going to have one or two openers in my head, I’ll try to open the sets and see how I far I get. And only 1 or 2 beers, no dutch courage. I will be out with two other guys and three girls, one of the guys is learning game, and the other is a natural, it’s a amazing to watch. The girls will be happy to help me if I ask them, if I say make me look good they will walk arm in arm with me, they’re good friends.

I might post how it goes on twitter, video update soon, update on my online sarging soon and I think that about covers it.

http://twitter.com/BuzPua

-Keep on sarging :)

I need some planning!

I feel i need some structure to my learning, because my game is all over the place so i have given myself a target of 1 year to become a fully fledged Pick-Up artist (not mastery). i have written what i will be doing over the next 3 weeks.

Here is a week by week guide of what I will be doing. I will be following the Mystery Method for the most part. Like many great PUAs have said I will try to push 20% further on each interaction with a person. Ultimately the goal is to try and get far as I can in each interaction. As long as I achieve the goal set out in that week, it does not matter if I mess up after the goal has been achieved and I will be able to learn from it in future weeks.

Since I have studied and am aware of the whole theory, I feel in someplaces I will be able to take interactions much further than the aim for that week.

Week 1 – A1
Aim: Approach at least 1 person per day.

How will this be done?-
Day Game: Use generic openers, i.e. ask for the time, ask for directions ect.
Night Game: Use a simple pre-planned opener

If the Aim is not achieved: Approach at least 2 people the following day.

Optional goals-
Day Game: Follow up with a direct line i.e. actually I don’t want to know the time, I just thought you were cute.
Night Game: Try to follow on conversation.

Week 2 A-1
Aim-
Day Game: Approach (warm or cold) at least 5 women followed by a direct line.
Night Game: Approach at least 5 women followed by a short story or routine.

How will this be done?-
Day Game: If approaching warm, I would have asked strangers generic openers. Then open a single with a generic opener followed by a direct line.
Night Game: Use a simple pre-planned opener and pre-planned story or routine

If the Aim is not achieved: Next week do twice as many approaches

Optional goals-
Day Game: cold approaches only, exchange names
Night Game: continue conversation for at least 5 minutes


Week 3 A-1
Aim-
Day Game: Perform at least 7 cold approaches followed by a direct line, and exchange names.
Night Game: Approach at least 5 sets, followed by a short story or routine and continue conversation for at least 5 minutes

How will this be done?-
Day Game: open a single with a generic opener followed by a direct line, and say I’m Buz, it was nice was to meet you.
Night Game: Have pre-planned openers and routines, use an opener I didn’t open the set with as conversational topic.

If the Aim is not achieved: next week introduce myself to “night sets” as “McLovin”

Optional goals-
Day Game: Try to continue conversation after name exchange
Night Game: Use situational topics to continue conversation.

It Starts here

Well, it has begun. This is the first blog post so I’d thought I’d tell you a little bit about myself and why I’m doing this.

But first I want to tell you about what my vision of a Pick-up Artist is. There are many stereotypes that give Pick-up Artists a bad name, one of which being the idea that Pick-up Artist just use tricks and manipulation to “trick” girls into sleeping with them. This is not my idea of a Pick-up Artist. A Pick-up Artist is the most interesting person in room, always. A person who is liked and loved for being themselves, and yes while “routines” and “gambits” are used, they are used to keep conversation going or because they are actually fun and interesting to show people, not just girls, people. The same as making up a joke, and telling it to your friends, do you tell the joke to all your friends at once? No, but if it’s funny and interesting it’s worth sharing and it’s even worth sharing with strangers.

I am starting this journey because I want to be the most interesting person in the room (unless Mystery is standing behind me). I want people to say, “yeah of course I remember Buz, He’s awesome”. But not to boost my own ego. At the moment I find it quite scary to talk to new people and strangers, after I have met someone for maybe the 2nd or 3rd time, I find it much easier to relax and be myself, I want to be able to that from “Hello, I’m Buz”.

At the moment I am 21, I have given myself a target of a year to become a Pick-up Artist. That’s 1 year to become “That awesome guy” and that person who makes people say “how did he get her”. If I get this right, the next 10-15 years of my life will extremely fun and I will have some fantastic memories and experiences. This is my Journey, it starts now.

-Buz