Thursday 8 April 2010

I'm Late!

I know I haven’t made an update in nearly a month. I have been starting a new job, sorting out a holiday, working out how to pay for the holiday, switching internet providers, fixing my laptop, computer and PS3. all whilst trying to study and practice the Art of the Pick-up.

Now that the excuses are out of the way, I will make a detailed video tomorrow evening about all the goings on.

I have had a few Day 2’s (dates/Second meetings), 2 from online, 2 from the field and a few friends. (trying things to escape the friend-zone).

As you tell can probably tell I am trying everything, Real-life, online sarging and friend-zone reversal (is that a thing?). Practice makes perfect. And practicing with female friends really helps, not only boost confidence but helps to perfect routines. The 1st time I tried “The Cube” routine with a girl I was shitting it, but I managed to stay calm throughout the whole routine and had a major ego boost when I finished. The Cube is fantastic,

[here’s a link if you have no idea what I am talking about: http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/the-cube-vt1509.html ]

It can take anything from 10-20 minutes to do, depending on how in depth you want to go. And if you’re stuck on conversation afterwards you can teach her how to do it. I have done it about 6 or 7 times, and always had a good response I ask them how accurate it is and so far have always got an 8 or 9 out of 10. I do it with a cheat sheet, my excuse of pulling a piece of paper out of my jacket is, that “it has to be done in a certain order, so I made notes for myself”, which they accept and it’s the truth.

I have Full-Monty-ed once this month, which may not sound like a lot but trust me it’s a lot more sex than I normally have. I am learning and practicing a lot more kino, I have found initiating basic kino is quite easy, touch her arm or whatever. But I have also found ways to jump-start it if there are no excuses to touch her from that point on. A couple off the top of my head are:

High Five! (maybe if we agree on something)

Thumb War! (maybe if we disagree on something)

I can follow-up both of these by saying: “wait a sec, give me your hand, interesting” then push it away. And follow-up with “I’ve started reading a book on palm reading” her: “so what you’re going to tell my future” me: “maybe in a bit, if you’re lucky” and lead on to fluff talking, or maybe talk about palm reading and if she believes it.

Sometimes I think I can get away with using the trust test, instead of palm reading or straight after palm reading. [ http://www.theattractionforums.com/comfort/48023-mehow-trust-test.html ]

Palm Reading is absolute pure BS but Pick-up gold. When I’m doing it girls seem amazed I am predicting there future, (remember it’s predicting the future, not cold reading, although I do slip a little cold reading in) for example I might say “this is you’re life line, it’s looks like you’re going to live until you’re very old, you might turn out to be a moaning granny, but by the looks of it, you’ll be having zimmer-frame races, also it looks like you where a very, energetic, child.” Did I just look at her life line and predict her future? I might of done, but she thinks I did.

I still suck at opening, but after that point I am really starting to see myself improve. Opening is just a sticking point for me, which I will master, and as soon as I have, other things will be much easier. :)

Thanks for reading and following guys, I haven’t really done anything with twitter, might use it to tweet my approaches, we’ll see what happens. Video tomorrow, with a few details and field reports I’ve left out.

Just quickly before you go, I’d like to sign off with a line that I really don’t have the right frame to make work, but it would still be fun to try in field. I might do one in every post:

“I’m Buz, if you buy me a drink, I might keep talking to you”

Keep on Sarging :)

-Buz