Just a quick update.
This Half of the week has been quite fun, asking people for the time when I didn’t need to know was easy. I have only been asking attractive woman for the time and directions, and when they didn’t know it was fun to tease them a little about them not knowing where they are. I haven’t used any direct lines yet but I’m sure I will by Tuesday, they will probably be warm approaches. I find day game difficult which is why I’m taking day game slowly.
Going to a bar tonight, which means, time to sarge. I am not as nervous as before and I think that’s because I have accepted failure as part of learning. Tonight I am going to have one or two openers in my head, I’ll try to open the sets and see how I far I get. And only 1 or 2 beers, no dutch courage. I will be out with two other guys and three girls, one of the guys is learning game, and the other is a natural, it’s a amazing to watch. The girls will be happy to help me if I ask them, if I say make me look good they will walk arm in arm with me, they’re good friends.
I might post how it goes on twitter, video update soon, update on my online sarging soon and I think that about covers it.
http://twitter.com/BuzPua
-Keep on sarging :)
Sunday 14 March 2010
Wednesday 10 March 2010
I need some planning!
I feel i need some structure to my learning, because my game is all over the place so i have given myself a target of 1 year to become a fully fledged Pick-Up artist (not mastery). i have written what i will be doing over the next 3 weeks.
Here is a week by week guide of what I will be doing. I will be following the Mystery Method for the most part. Like many great PUAs have said I will try to push 20% further on each interaction with a person. Ultimately the goal is to try and get far as I can in each interaction. As long as I achieve the goal set out in that week, it does not matter if I mess up after the goal has been achieved and I will be able to learn from it in future weeks.
Since I have studied and am aware of the whole theory, I feel in someplaces I will be able to take interactions much further than the aim for that week.
Week 1 – A1
Aim: Approach at least 1 person per day.
How will this be done?-
Day Game: Use generic openers, i.e. ask for the time, ask for directions ect.
Night Game: Use a simple pre-planned opener
If the Aim is not achieved: Approach at least 2 people the following day.
Optional goals-
Day Game: Follow up with a direct line i.e. actually I don’t want to know the time, I just thought you were cute.
Night Game: Try to follow on conversation.
Week 2 A-1
Aim-
Day Game: Approach (warm or cold) at least 5 women followed by a direct line.
Night Game: Approach at least 5 women followed by a short story or routine.
How will this be done?-
Day Game: If approaching warm, I would have asked strangers generic openers. Then open a single with a generic opener followed by a direct line.
Night Game: Use a simple pre-planned opener and pre-planned story or routine
If the Aim is not achieved: Next week do twice as many approaches
Optional goals-
Day Game: cold approaches only, exchange names
Night Game: continue conversation for at least 5 minutes
Week 3 A-1
Aim-
Day Game: Perform at least 7 cold approaches followed by a direct line, and exchange names.
Night Game: Approach at least 5 sets, followed by a short story or routine and continue conversation for at least 5 minutes
How will this be done?-
Day Game: open a single with a generic opener followed by a direct line, and say I’m Buz, it was nice was to meet you.
Night Game: Have pre-planned openers and routines, use an opener I didn’t open the set with as conversational topic.
If the Aim is not achieved: next week introduce myself to “night sets” as “McLovin”
Optional goals-
Day Game: Try to continue conversation after name exchange
Night Game: Use situational topics to continue conversation.
Saturday 6 March 2010
It Starts here
Well, it has begun. This is the first blog post so I’d thought I’d tell you a little bit about myself and why I’m doing this.
But first I want to tell you about what my vision of a Pick-up Artist is. There are many stereotypes that give Pick-up Artists a bad name, one of which being the idea that Pick-up Artist just use tricks and manipulation to “trick” girls into sleeping with them. This is not my idea of a Pick-up Artist. A Pick-up Artist is the most interesting person in room, always. A person who is liked and loved for being themselves, and yes while “routines” and “gambits” are used, they are used to keep conversation going or because they are actually fun and interesting to show people, not just girls, people. The same as making up a joke, and telling it to your friends, do you tell the joke to all your friends at once? No, but if it’s funny and interesting it’s worth sharing and it’s even worth sharing with strangers.
I am starting this journey because I want to be the most interesting person in the room (unless Mystery is standing behind me). I want people to say, “yeah of course I remember Buz, He’s awesome”. But not to boost my own ego. At the moment I find it quite scary to talk to new people and strangers, after I have met someone for maybe the 2nd or 3rd time, I find it much easier to relax and be myself, I want to be able to that from “Hello, I’m Buz”.
At the moment I am 21, I have given myself a target of a year to become a Pick-up Artist. That’s 1 year to become “That awesome guy” and that person who makes people say “how did he get her”. If I get this right, the next 10-15 years of my life will extremely fun and I will have some fantastic memories and experiences. This is my Journey, it starts now.
-Buz
But first I want to tell you about what my vision of a Pick-up Artist is. There are many stereotypes that give Pick-up Artists a bad name, one of which being the idea that Pick-up Artist just use tricks and manipulation to “trick” girls into sleeping with them. This is not my idea of a Pick-up Artist. A Pick-up Artist is the most interesting person in room, always. A person who is liked and loved for being themselves, and yes while “routines” and “gambits” are used, they are used to keep conversation going or because they are actually fun and interesting to show people, not just girls, people. The same as making up a joke, and telling it to your friends, do you tell the joke to all your friends at once? No, but if it’s funny and interesting it’s worth sharing and it’s even worth sharing with strangers.
I am starting this journey because I want to be the most interesting person in the room (unless Mystery is standing behind me). I want people to say, “yeah of course I remember Buz, He’s awesome”. But not to boost my own ego. At the moment I find it quite scary to talk to new people and strangers, after I have met someone for maybe the 2nd or 3rd time, I find it much easier to relax and be myself, I want to be able to that from “Hello, I’m Buz”.
At the moment I am 21, I have given myself a target of a year to become a Pick-up Artist. That’s 1 year to become “That awesome guy” and that person who makes people say “how did he get her”. If I get this right, the next 10-15 years of my life will extremely fun and I will have some fantastic memories and experiences. This is my Journey, it starts now.
-Buz
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